Are Seed Oils Bad For You?

Seed oils: are they bad, unhealthy and toxic?

Right from the jump – no, seed oils are not bad for you. This may come as a surprise to some, especially with the growing buzz around "toxic" seed oils in popular media. I will break down what seed oils are, how they earned a bad reputation, why much of the fear surrounding them is based on misinformation and how you should actually eat for your health.

What Are Seed Oils?

As the name suggests, seed oils are oils derived from the seeds of plants. Some of the most common examples include canola, corn, peanut, soybean, flaxseed, sesame, and sunflower oils. These oils are widely used in cooking and processed foods due to their availability, relatively low cost, and versatility.

Why Are These Oils Thought to Be "Bad" or "Toxic"?

The idea that seed oils are toxic stems from their high content of omega-6 fatty acids, specifically polyunsaturated fats (PUFAs). Omega-6 fatty acids are essential fats that our bodies need to function properly. But the key word here is "essential"—our bodies require omega-6s for various processes, and they are crucial to our health.

So where did this connection between PUFAs and toxicity arise? As with most things it is sometimes hard to trace back where this rumor started. Without calling out names, it appears to have been popularized by an individual’s quest to back the “Carnivore Diet”. The claim is that these oxidized omega-6s raise our oxidized LDL (LDL is one of the markers associated with cholesterol levels to assess cardiovascular health, etc) which then may increase risk of cardiovascular disease. None of these claims have significant scientific backing and is a classic case of correlation, not causation. In fact the opposite idea, consuming omega-6s decreases risk of cardiovascular disease, has robust scientific backing.

It's not the omega-6s themselves that are the problem. Issues might arise with the imbalance between omega-6s and omega-3s in the average diet. Omega-3s, another type of essential fatty acid, are often under-consumed in comparison to omega-6s. This imbalance can lead to an unhealthy inflammatory response, but that doesn’t mean omega-6s themselves are harmful. It’s all about balance.

Omega-3s vs. Omega-6s: The Ratio Matters

You’ve likely heard a lot about omega-3 fatty acids and their many health benefits—reduced inflammation, heart health, brain function, and more. But what gets less attention is omega-6 fatty acids, which are also essential for your health. Omega-6s get a bad reputation when people see that they are “pro-inflammatory”.

It's important to note that inflammation, while often discussed negatively, is a necessary process in the body. It’s how the body responds to injury, infection, or harmful stimuli. Chronic inflammation, however, is the issue. It’s the long-term, constant state of inflammation that can lead to health problems. To maintain balance, our bodies need both omega-6 and omega-3 fatty acids, which work in tandem to regulate inflammation and other bodily functions. When you consume a variety of foods that include both omega-6s and omega-3s, your body has all the tools it needs to manage the natural ebb and flow of inflammation.

To better illustate this, think of a fever - which an inflammatory response. We see that a fever is useful, essential and a natural immune response to fight off a cold or infection. However, if the fever were to persist or escalate to too high of temperatures, then that is when we would view it as a problem. It is not the fact that we have fevers, but rather a dysregulated fever is an issue.

The Fear-Mongering Myths and Nutrition Trends

Seed oils have been caught in the crossfire of the latest nutrition trends, and often, they are unjustly vilified as "toxic." This feeds into a larger narrative of finding a singular cause for modern health problems. The idea that one specific food is to blame for all our ailments is oversimplified and misleading. Our bodies are complex, and there’s rarely one magic bullet for illness.

While it's important to question the food systems in place and explore how we can improve our diets, blaming seed oils for health problems is not the answer. Nutrition is far more complicated than blaming one food. Creating narratives around individual foods as “good” or “bad” increases stress and anxiety, which can actually harm your health more than the food itself.

A Balanced Approach to Eating

The key takeaway here is that balance is crucial. Seed oils, when consumed as part of a diverse and well-rounded diet, are not harmful. They provide essential fats that your body needs to function, and when consumed alongside a variety of other foods, they contribute to a healthy diet. Rather than focusing on whether a particular food is “toxic” or “good,” try to focus on the bigger picture of eating a variety of whole foods, balancing omega-6 and omega-3 fats, and nourishing your body with the nutrients it needs. There are also numerous studies backing the guidance that consuming plant-based fats can help lower LDL cholesterol.

Seed oils are not the scapegoat they’ve been made out to be. They are a source of healthy fats, essential for our bodies to function. The focus should be on consuming a variety of foods, including both omega-6 and omega-3 fatty acids, to maintain balance and support overall health. So, the next time you hear about the dangers of seed oils, remember that the science doesn’t support the fear. The truth is, it’s not about demonizing individual foods—it’s about maintaining a healthy, balanced diet.

Understanding Food Neutrality: What It Is and How to Practice It

Introduction

Food neutrality is removing the moral power of food as well as the characterization of food as either good OR bad. Food neutrality means you don’t label or think about food in a black and white manner. It also means you don’t give food power to deem YOU as either a good/bad, healthy/unhealthy, strict/lazy person. 

Diet culture moralizes food and food choices by making you feel a certain way (mentally or morally) for eating certain things. 

The goal of this post is to help you shift your mindset, zoom out, and take a less harsh, more neutral approach to food and eating. 

What Is Food Neutrality?

Let’s define food neutrality. It’s viewing all foods as morally neutral—no food is "good" or "bad" for us, and we are not good or bad for eating certain foods or a certain way, 

Food neutrality uses a non-judgmental approach to eating, where food choices exist but don’t have an impact on your opinion about yourself. It naturally encourages balance and variety in your eating, which both support a healthy relationship with food.

The constant mental work it takes to be labeling foods or eating habits as good/bad is a crushing load. You may not even realize how exhausting the food noise has been for you until you slowly let those habits go. Your mental health, your self confidence and your self compassion will all likely improve as you quit judging yourself based on food. 

Why Food Neutrality Matters

Embracing food neutrality could make a huge difference in your relationship with food and your own body. 

To review, it can…

• Reduce guilt and shame around eating.

• Encourage intuitive eating and balanced nutrition.

• Help break cycles of restriction and overeating.

• Support mental well-being and body trust.

Common Misconceptions About Food Neutrality

Let’s address some of the common misconceptions about both food neutrality and the anti-diet movement in general. 

• "It means eating only junk food."

Reality: It encourages balance and choice. You end up eating foods that sound good, make you feel good physically, and provide the satisfaction factor that is important in fullness and satiety. 

• "It ignores nutrition." 

Reality: It allows for nutrition without judgment. You can absolutely still incorporate gentle nutrition into your choices about eating. The difference is that you separate making a decision about what to eat from letting that decision be a measure of your worth or health.

• "It’s unhealthy." 

Reality: Removing moral labels fosters long-term well-being. We absolutely cannot ignore mental and emotional health when calculating our overall wellness. Diets, food shame and body shame crush people’s confidence, joy and self worth. The healthier approach is to remove the source of judgement and shame and achieve improved mental health. This eventually leads to more peace and ease with eating and body image. 

How to Practice Food Neutrality in Daily Life

Here are five ideas for how to begin to practice food neutrality:

1. Challenge Food Labels – Be on the lookout for labels and food judgements, both ON the foods themselves (like on packing) and IN your own mind. Notice when you call foods "good" or "bad.” Practice reframing those thoughts. 

2. Give Yourself Permission to Eat – All foods have a place in a balanced diet. Give yourself full permission to eat any and all foods. Restriction most often leads to an eventual binge and the cycle can be brutal. Embracing unconditional permission to eat helps you break from that cycle.

3. Tune Into Hunger & Fullness Cues – Instead of external food rules, listen to your body. This is where we eliminate the rules and judgements about portions or amounts of food. You are your body’s best expert. Practice tuning into your hunger and fullness cues to make decisions about when and how much to eat. 

4. Think Big Picture with Nutrition – A single meal or snack won’t make or break your health. Not to mention, only a certain portion of our health factors are within our power to manipulate. Genetics, medical conditions, environment, socioeconomic factors- these all contribute to nutrition and health. Let yourself off the hook; you do not hold the power to control your own health outcomes. Zoom out, engage with some gentle nutrition information from non-diet nutrition professionals, and start implementing small, daily health practices that help you align your values with your health goals. 

5. Model Neutral Language – Especially around kids, avoid moralizing food (e.g., "junk food" vs. "fun food"). Whether or not you have kids, this is such a good practice to get into. Observing the way you talk about food (especially with your peers) can show you a lot about the way you have internalized food messaging and morality. Put your mouth where you want your mind to be, and start speaking these new truths into existence! 

Final Thoughts on Food Neutrality

If you’ve been stuck in a cycle of dieting for a long time, it can seem like an overwhelming amount of change to embrace to start relating to food in a neutral and non-judgemental way. 

Just start small—change one thought or habit at a time.

If you’re feeling lost or like you don’t know where to start, I’d love to work with you on your journey towards food neutrality and improved health. You can also check out my self paced guide on reengaging with your internal body cues.

Non-Diet New Year's Resolutions

There is one thing we all know is coming when January 1st rolls around: New Year’s resolutions. For decades there has been a heavy cultural pressure to start the new year with diet or weight-loss goals. But what if, instead of centering goals around weight, body size or diets, we rooted our resolutions in self-care, personal growth, and peace making principles? Resolutions don’t have to involve weight loss to be meaningful and transformative. Read on for encouragement and tips for setting non-diet New Year’s resolutions. 

Why Ditch Diet-Centric Resolutions?

Health care professionals (and influencers) do not suddenly have new ideas or magic answers to your health concerns come the first day of every new year. What they do have is diet culture’s big push to restart, reset or recommit to “health” with New Year’s resolutions.

Unfortunately, yo-yo dieting and the constant whiplash of success followed by defeat is bad for both physical and mental well-being. It doesn’t feel good to set goals that are unrealistic, unattainable or just plain unenjoyable to achieve. But goal setting doesn’t have to be this way. Instead of setting goals that may or may not even be within your ability to achieve (like a specific amount of weight loss or a specific clothes size), you can choose to set goals that are within your power to make happen. 

Ultimately, your long term contentment and peace with your body starts by centering your goals and picture of health around body diversity and care, respect and compassion towards your body. 

Reframing Resolutions with Self-Compassion

So how do you center your goals around body diversity and self care? I recommend starting by identifying personal values, like kindness, creativity, fun or connection. From there, you can make a plan about how to incorporate those values into your health related goals. 

Here are a few sample shifts:

• From “I need to lose weight” to “I want to feel energized and connected to my body.”

• From “I want to exercise every day” to “I want to combine movement with socializing by meeting up with friends for walks once a week.”

• Or, from “I want to fit into my college jeans” to “I want to get dressed and ready for the day each morning so I feel confident and put-together.” 

Remember, too, that it can be difficult to know *exactly* what new goals will be enjoyable, be sustainable and fit easily into your lifestyle. Approach goal setting with curiosity and flexibility rather than rigidity. Adjusting or abandoning a goal doesn’t make you a failure or mean that you’ve lost your commitment to a healthy lifestyle. It means you’re reflecting honestly and objectively about what’s best for you and giving yourself the grace and space to make changes without shame. 

Non-Diet Resolution Ideas

Area of focus #1: Connection with Body and Mind

• Practice intuitive eating: use the hunger and fullness scale at mealtimes, allow previously forbidden foods back into your house, cook a fun dessert at home every week.

• Explore joyful movement: try out a local dance class, do at-home yoga on Youtube, take a 10 minute walk before leaving for work twice a week.

• Experiment with mindfulness practices: download an app for meditation, journal one sentence every evening before bed, learn a new breathing technique for relaxation.

Area of focus #2: Cultivate Joy and Fulfillment

• Prioritize relationships by spending quality time with friends and family.

• Start a daily or weekly creative practice, like painting, writing, or photography.

• Commit to learning a new skill or craft.

• Explore local art, music, or cultural events and support small business owners.

Area of focus #3: Focus on Well-Being

• Build a sustainable sleep routine.

• Nourish your body adequately by incorporating snacks into your daily eating routine. 

• Set boundaries to protect your time and energy.

Overcoming New Year’s Resolution Challenges

It will not necessarily be easy to stay away from diet-y goals. No doubt you will be faced with weight-loss conversations and questions about why you’re abandoning diet related goals. When this happens, return to the list of your values that you named. Remind yourself that pursuing weight-loss or body manipulation is not in line with those values and will distract you from what matters the most to you.

Remember that progress is not linear and that self-care is about long-term well-being, not perfection. You may be tempted to revisit diets; you may have lingering thoughts about wanting to change your body. That’s OK! Committing to a weight-inclusive, non-diet life doesn’t mean that those desires magically go away overnight. You’re working on a new approach to health that will serve you best in the long-term, and it takes time. 

Non-diet New Year’s resolutions enhance well-being by being realistic, sustainable and rooted in self-care, compassion, and personal growth. Maybe you’re reading this and you’re not totally sold, or you’re not sure this is for you. One step that anyone can take is to start journaling. Write down how you’re feeling about whatever your New Year’s resolutions are. Keep yourself honest and accountable by continuing this journaling as the weeks go by. Whatever goals you set, if they’re working for you and making your life fuller, healthier and more peaceful, then I think you will find this reflected in your journaling. If your goals are making you feel miserable, overwhelmed or defeated, you’ll notice that, too. It’s never a bad time to make adjustments based on your observations. 

I’ll leave you with a quote from Brené Brown: "Talk to yourself like someone you love."

Be gentle with yourself. Treat yourself kindly and see how your body responds. 

If you’re not sure where to get started but you know that you want 2025 to be a year of growth and better health, reach out to me. I’d love to talk with you about working together on your nutrition and healthy lifestyle goals. 

Intuitive Eating Holiday Bill of Rights

As we enter the holiday season, I wanted to give you some encouragement and reminders of what you deserve. Holidays can be one of the most stressful times of the year. They should be focused on spending time with friends and family, enjoying cultural traditions, getting a break from regular routines and responsibilities, and for some, celebrating important religious occasions.

Unfortunately, holidays often end up bringing stress around food, body image, drinking, difficult relationships, uncomfortable questions and conversation topics, etc. To help each of you have the best holiday season possible within the limits of every individual’s unique circumstances, I wrote an Intuitive Eating Holiday Bill of Rights for you. 

Holiday Bill of Rights

#1 You have the right to enjoy eating with no guilt, shame, judgment or commentary from others.

Holidays usually bring with them delicious feasts. It’s one of the most talked about parts of the holidays! For people who struggle with chronic dieting, disordered eating or an eating disorder, the focus on food can make enjoying the holidays that much more difficult. While this is a right you should have all the time, it is especially important to remember around the holidays. You have the right to enjoy your plate without any input or judgment from others.

#2 You have the right to eat past fullness.

One of the 10 principles of intuitive eating is Feeling Your Fullness. Being in tune with your body’s cues is an important part of intuitive eating. However, this doesn’t mean you always have to stop eating as soon as you start feeling full. You may choose to stop or pause. You may choose to keep eating anyway. You have that right. Eating past fullness is a normal thing that happens occasionally. Feeling super full is a temporary sensation. It will pass. Remind yourself of that if/when you start to feel bad about eating past fullness. “This is a normal feeling. This is a sign of a delicious holiday meal enjoyed with people I love. This feeling will pass.” 

#3 You have the right to say no to seconds, to a specific dish, or to any food being served to you.

‘No’ is a complete sentence. You can always say no. You may say, “No thank you.” You might say, “No, really, thank you though” if pushed.  You don’t ever have to be pressured into eating anything. No matter how much time was spent making a dish. No matter how many years in a row it has been served. If you don’t like it, are feeling too full, or for whatever reason don’t want to eat it, you can say no. What you put into your body is your choice. 

#4 You have the right to take time for self care.

Your holidays may be busy or they may be slow. Regardless of what your schedule looks like, you deserve time to yourself that you spend however you need to. You can excuse yourself from a group gathering. You can turn into bed early. You can go for a walk, or find a local yoga class, or go to your room and turn on a meditation (or an episode of your favorite show!) If anyone gives you a hard time, you can say something like this, “These are my holidays, too. I deserve a say in how I spend them. This is something I want/need to do right now. I’ll be back in __ minutes/hours.” 

#5 You have the right to take a break from any normal routines without guilt. 

Always eat oatmeal for breakfast? Always go for a run after work? Always wake up at 6am? You have every right to take a break from your usual routines. Sometimes, people genuinely want to continue some of their regular rhythms while on holiday because it helps them feel good or helps with their mental health. Or maybe it’s something that gets you out of the house and gives you some alone time! If you want to do it, do it. If you don’t want to do it, ZERO GUILT. You enjoy your holidays.  

#6 You have the right to ignore diet talk, and to opt out of any conversation that you don’t want to be in.

Diets, weight loss, politics, body shaming, gossip, etc. Conversations that aren’t healthy are NOT required. You have the right to excuse yourself out of any conversation that you don’t feel like having. You don’t have to defend your position. You can just leave the table and say, “Excuse me for a moment.” 

#7 You have the right to enjoy any event, gathering, party or social opportunity without stressing about the calories consumed and without any additional compensatory behavior. 

You do not need to run an extra 30 minutes. You do not need to skip a meal to save up for later. You do not need to “be careful” about what you grab from the buffet. You do not need to choose the sugar free beverage option. You can enjoy the food and beverages without worrying about or compensating for the calories.  

I sincerely desire happy and rich holiday experiences for each and every one of you. I hope that embracing this Intuitive Eating Holiday Bill of Rights can give you the encouragement and confidence you need to spend your holidays in a way that is enjoyable, life-giving and affirming. 

To prep your loved ones ahead of time with what your expectations are for your holidays, you could consider sharing this graphic on your social media (or if you’re bold, texting it to them!)

For additional bolstering of your confidence, Evelyn Tribole- coauthor of the book Intuitive Eating- also has a great Holiday Bill of Rights on her website and I have a Holiday THRIVE Guide available for purchase and download today!

Wishing you the best,

Embracing Food Neutrality and Quieting Food Noise

Ever feel like the chatter about what you should or shouldn’t eat is never-ending? That’s food noise. Adopting a position of food neutrality will help to quiet that noise. Intuitive eaters relate to foods neutrally, instead of labeling good vs bad, healthy vs unhealthy, etc. Over time, as you improve this skill, you will quiet the food noise and turn it into something you might only occasionally notice in the background of your thoughts. Here are some tips on how to start that process and why it’s so important in making peace with food.

Section 1: Understanding Food Neutrality

What does it mean to view food neutrally? It means breaking the dichotomy of how diet culture has taught us to label food. Consider how often you hear food labeled: healthy, unhealthy, clean, good, bad, junk, red light, green light, etc. Instead of our brain categorizing foods into these moral camps, food neutrality builds a perspective toward all foods that is neutral and non-judgemental. 

Food neutrality is essential in fostering a healthy relationship with food. It reduces guilt and anxiety around eating. It prevents self-loathing and shameful feelings about what you eat. And it sets you up for long-term balanced eating habits built on your genuine preferences, gentle nutrition, and your mental, emotional and social health. 

Section 2: What Is Food Noise?

Food noise is the constant chatter- both from external and internal sources- about foods and health. It could be what to eat, what not to eat, what to cook for dinner, what to order at the restaurant, what groceries to buy, what food is healthy, what diet should you do, what diet is your friend doing, what new food trend is going around, what did you eat yesterday that you felt guilty about…. It never ends. Individuals wrestle with varying amounts of food noise in their head and in their environment, but those that have a history of chronic dieting or are currently experiencing disordered eating or eating disorders are likely dealing with a LOT of food noise all day, every day.

Think about all the places we encounter messages about food: social media, magazines, books, podcasts, news, friends, family members, doctors offices, restaurants, grocery stores PLUS anything you heard in the past that still rattles around in your brain.

The internal noise like personal food rules and restrictive thinking can be some of the hardest to quiet. You can change who you follow on social media, you can change which cookbooks you use, you can change which magazines you bring home, but it’s much more logistically difficult to flat out change your thoughts. 

It takes practice, it takes repetition, and it takes a compassionate approach. 

Impact of Food Noise:

Food noise disrupts your natural hunger cues and emotional well-being. It prevents you from being able to identify your own preferences, likes and dislikes. It feeds you constant information (true or untrue) about food and nutrition that doesn’t actually improve your health. It causes you emotional and mental stress to weigh all this information at all times. 

We don’t actually have to think that hard about what to eat. We can have a gentler, calmer and more *neutral* relationship with our food choices and still promote good health- physically, emotionally, mentally and socially.

How Intuitive Eating Counters Food Noise

Intuitive eating teaches honoring hunger, respecting fullness, and making peace with food. It teaches you to listen to your cravings, your food preferences, your stomach, and to consider what foods will bring not just fullness but also satisfaction. 

It teaches you to tune into your body, while tuning out the unhelpful food noise. Often, we don’t need to listen to our thoughts to use our internal cues; we need to listen to our body. 

The intuitive eating principles of rejecting diet mentality and having unconditional permission to eat are integrally connected to the concepts of food neutrality and quieting the food noise. Rejecting the diet mentality is another way of saying rejecting the food noise in your brain and in the culture. It requires food neutrality; if no foods are good/bad/healthy/unhealthy, then there’s no diet or rules to follow. If there are no “bad” foods, then there's no reason to limit or restrict your food options.

The Role of a Dietitian in Supporting Food Neutrality

Working with an intuitive eating dietitian can help you develop and maintain food neutrality. They can help you identify thought patterns that keep you stuck. They support you in unlearning food labels while still providing you with trustworthy, evidence-based gentle nutrition information. They help you talk through your fears about adopting food neutrality and answer common questions, like “Will I lose control and start binge eating if I treat all foods as equal?”

A dietitian will help you focus on nourishment, satisfaction, and well-being to transform your relationship with food. They will remind you of the truth: that no food is inherently good or bad, and help keep you on track when the food noise tries to creep back in.

Practical Tips for Embracing Food Neutrality

• Recognize Food Labels: Start identifying food labels and then reframing them. You may see physical labels on foods in the store, or you may notice when labels pop into your brain when a food is mentioned. The first step toward food neutrality is noticing when the dichotomous labeling happens.

• Challenge Food Rules: Acknowledge and question restrictive beliefs or rules around certain foods. Now that you are taking note of how you label foods (and how food companies label them), you can begin to develop awareness around the internal rules and restrictions you set around certain foods. If you feel ready, you can begin to challenge those rules by breaking them and noticing- with curiosity and compassion- what happens. Never let yourself have a donut in the office break room? Try it out one morning and see what happens. Notice your thoughts. Notice how your body feels. Discuss the experience with your dietitian, if you’re working with one.

• Mindful Eating: Practice mindful eating to stay present and connected with your body’s needs. Check in with your hunger and fullness levels before, once during, and after your meal. Limit distractions while you eat and think about the sensations and experience of eating. Instead of nutrition metrics (calories, fat, carbohydrates, etc) think about the taste, the smell, who you’re sharing the meal with or where the origin of the recipe came from. 

• Silencing External Noise: Remember we talked about it being difficult to change your own thoughts about food overnight? It can take some time to begin naturally and unconsciously embracing food neutrality. So one of the best things you can do for yourself right away is to limit exposure to harmful external food messages. Unfollow accounts that label foods good or bad and promote diets. Reduce media consumption like books, podcasts and magazines that have diet-heavy messages. If you have cookbooks or follow food blogs that are heavily into “healthy,” “clean” or “whole-30/paleo/keto/” recipes, consider putting those away for a while. 

As you silence external food noise and work consistently on practicing food neutrality, one day it will become your new normal and you won’t have to consciously reframe your diet-thoughts anymore, they’ll be neutral from the beginning. 

Embrace the journey towards food neutrality as an ongoing process. Just like learning intuitive eating, it’s not going to be linear. See every day as a learning experience and lean hard into grace, self-compassion, curiosity and kindness. 

Trust your body’s wisdom and seek support from professionals like dietitians who advocate for food freedom and intuitive eating. I would love to work with you. If you’re not ready for one-on-one support, I also have a brand new body cues workbook coming out Fall 2024. Make sure you are signed up for email newsletters so you will be the first to know when it’s available. As a bonus for subscribing, you’ll get my Hello Intuitive Eating Workbook sent right to your inbox.